Family of Origin
Reclaim who you truly are
Family of Origin Exploration
The environment a child grows up in has a profound impact on the person they become. Like a plant that thrives in a well-tended garden, so it is with a child. Unconditional love, positive regard, and a stable family life produce healthy and happy children, who in turn, grow up to be happy and healthy adults. Sadly, this is not the story of many people who come to STAR.
A child’s basic self-esteem, self worth, and ability to feel safe and secure in the world are formed by the environment in which they live. Parents who were too smothering or too aloof, who were too young or too old, or who lacked parenting skills, can twist the development of a child’s personality. Verbal abuse in the form of criticism, ridicule, and humiliation frequently result in feelings of shame and lack of confidence. For instance, children growing up in families fractured by bitter divorce, or undue hardships such as addictions, or lack of basic resources are frequently left with problems of depression, anxiety, or a variety of other limiting personality characteristics as a result.
Methods to cope with dysfunction are as varied as the children who create them. What they all have in common, however, is that these coping strategies were conceived in an effort to survive. For that reason, many are intimately attached to them. Over time, and even after moving out of our family and into the world, these strategies come with us. The problem is that what worked as a child most often does not work in our adult life. For example, a child may find refuge in school and learn to excel in all matters intellectual. The continued pursuit of intellectual excellence, however, won’t work when this person attempts to have an adult intimate relationship. Or, for example, another child who copes by trying to please everyone around him or herself in order to secure love seriously compromises the ability to be present and grounded in their own truth in adult life.
Healing Happens Here
STAR Can Help
By dealing with the issues that arise from your family of origin, you will fully understand why you act, react and feel the way you do.
Family of Origin work during STAR allows understanding of your past. Our experiential format gives you the opportunity to express and release repressed feelings, thoughts, and sensations attached to your childhood experience, and uncover old patterns of thinking and behaving which are no longer needed and are attached to your childhood. Many participants, who go through the STAR journey, express infinite gratitude at the experience of no longer living their lives in response to a past that no longer exists.
“STAR is the most profound healing experience I’ve had so far— and I’ve been on this journey for a while now. This was the greatest gift I could have given myself. I’ve unlocked the treasures that are within me and I let go of the crap that I learned in my family.”
“I was able to see how the conditioning that I received as a little child had affected the way I thought, acted, and reacted to to everything in my life.”
“How do I get the rest of my family to sign up?”
“I am now able to look at situations much more clearly. I am amazed at myself for how well I behaved recently during some stressful and insane family situations. It was great and I am proud of myself for using what I learned at STAR. Thank you!”